Haitian Beatz

I figured I would take this opportunity to talk about an issue that’s been itching to be typed: How to be a good party guest. Communion season is probably the biggest party season in the Haitian community. Many

people look forward to the festivities, the music, the food, and the camaraderie. All that said, I think perhaps we are getting just a tad out of hand in the way we behave as guests at these events. While one does not have to be as formal with birthday parties and communions as they have to be with weddings, there are some basic rules that apply whenever someone invites you to their home or to their event. In the realm of Haitian parties, I say, go back to the basics of what your mama taught you at home, and all will be fine.

RSVP…and don’t bring the neighborhood

Let the person know you plan on attending their function. This helps the host prepare in terms of food, seating and other party amenities. This is why it is also important that when someone invites you to a party, you don’t drag the whole neighborhood with you. If you plan on attending with a guest or two, ask the host for permission prior to the event. A good time to do this is when you call to RSVP. I will often see someone on the way to someone’s party actually “pick up” additional guests as they go along. They’ll call up a friend and simply say hey, “lets go”. Unless you are very close with the party thrower and know their party culture, never just bring someone to a party without prior permission.

Bring Something

It is always nice to not show up to a party empty handed. Whether it’s a gift for a child that lives in the