Haitian Beatz

The reason for a party is simple. It’s a time to let go. Let go of worries, let go of annoyances and let go of your usual hang-ups. I hear quite a bit of complaints from Haitian men about the way Haitian women socialize at parties. To some Haitian men, Haitian women are not that well versed at interacting in asocial setting unless they are with family and friends. But I also hear complaints from females about the way in which they are approached by the opposite sex at these same settings. But party fun really has nothing to do with talking with the opposite sex. While it is ok to enjoy a conversation with a woman and men you find attractive, it is also perfectly ok to initiate conversation with individuals of your own sex.

Below are some tips to make your party experience that much more fulfilled.

Rules of Socializing at a party

Don’t wait for people to come talk to you! Initiate conversation: This is probably the hardest thing for many people, but really, when you can build up the gusto to step up to strangers. When you step up to the bar, “look to the person next to you and ask them what they are drinking? What do they recommend? All this can lead t great conversation. It’s a much better opening line than say, “what do you do?” Many people don’t care to share their work lives at a party, and quite frankly you probably don’t care, unless it’s a networking event. So focus on fun conversation. “This DJ is not too bad, have you heard him/her play before?” For those who live in NYC, parking is always a great conversation starter, “Parking sure is crazy around here”. I am considered an extrovert because I hold the power of being able to talk to strangers. I still find it to be quite a difficult task, it’s a necessary evil for growth in life and relationships. Well, perhaps it is not that serious, but you sure have more fun when you can do it.

Smile & Make eye Contact: Believe it or not, most people at parties are looking for the same thing you are: Someone to talk to and connect with. The friendlier you appear, the more at ease you make someone else feel and the more approachable you seem. If you are not the type who like to approach others, than definitely put on that bright smile.