“The only desire of these young women is to find a man to rescue them out of the situation they are living,” said Jean-Philippe Maçon, singer and composer of the song Madan Papa, who goes by the stage name Marinad 007. “It’s a case of need. Love doesn’t really exist between the two.”
It’s not a new story. The international dating site SeekingArrangement.com, for example, boasts more than 300,000 registered “babies” and “daddies” in search of relationships. But in Haiti, where strict cultural norms kept such situations hush-hush in the past, the open declaration in a song played by DJs and climbing the charts on radio marks a new level of desperation, said Michel Joseph, a journalist with Radio Television Caraibes, who has been tracking the phenomenon.
THE ECONOMIC CRISIS HAS ERODED THE DIGNITY OF PEOPLE, PUT THEM IN A BAD POSITION.
Hérold Toussaint, sociologist
In a country marked by extreme poverty and inequality, Madan Papa, with its driving electronic dance beat, has become a social commentary, a musical reflection on the misery, sexual exploitation and erosion of values caused by years of economic and political instability.
“The economic crisis has eroded the dignity of people, put them in a bad position,” said Hérold Toussaint, a sociologist and a vice rector at the State University of Haiti.
The sugar babies phenomenon, he added, is more urban than rural, and “is an expression, a consequence of the brutal situation of the country’s economy that has hit everyone and every social class,” but affected the poor and women the most.
“There are no jobs, no work in the country,” said Toussaint. “So it has become a defense against poverty for the women....What’s worse is that the women believe they won’t be anything if they don’t subscribe to this logic; they cannot get out of their economic situation if they don’t take this exit door.”
Neesha, who didn’t want her last name used, was 19 when she met her “Papa,” a 55-year-old widower who holds a position of privilege as a government official. Three years later, she says proudly, the two are still going strong.
“I don’t like to suffer. He doesn’t allow me to ask for anything; he gives me everything,” said the second-year accounting major, who doesn’t know how much her college tuition costs because, “Papa pays for it.”
“He’s already assured me that when I finish school, he will give me a job because he’s in power,” she said. “Unlike a brother who won’t give you anything, a Papa never lets you ask twice.”
Neesha said she was criticized by her friends for dating a man older than her 40-year-old mother. Her mother also disapproved — at first.
“Eventually, she had no choice but to accept him because she couldn’t meet my needs,” Neesha said. “Before him, there were a lot of things that I wanted for myself. I wanted to pursue my studies and my parents couldn’t pay for it. The same week we met, I explained it to him. He encouraged me and I was pursuing my accounting degree.”
Before Haiti’s recent presidential elections deepened an already existing economic crisis, the World Bank announced that the number of Haitians living in extreme poverty, or on less than $1 a day, had dropped significantly since 2012.
But with 70 percent of the population either poor or vulnerable to falling into poverty, the international financial institution warned that reductions in foreign aid and increased political instability could reverse the gains.
WHILE PEOPLE ARE FINDING PLEASURE IN THE MUSIC, WE ALSO WANT THEM TO HEAR THE MESSAGE.
Jean-Philippe Maçon, aka Marinad 007, creator of hit song Madan Papa
Maçon, who takes credit for coining the phrase Madan Papa during an exchange last year with a young woman who had entered into a sexual-financial relationship with an old man, said his neighborhood is the epicenter of Haiti’s misery. In densely populated Cité Soleil, the country’s largest slum, the trash-heaped canals and shacks with corroding tin roofs offer little hope of future prospects.
But it was there, in a makeshift studio with little more than a mic and an outdated laptop, that he and his crew of other aspiring musicians mixed the beats that have made Madan Papa so popular thanks to its dance-friendly, defiant rabòday beats. Rabòday is a new electronic dance music emerging out of Haiti’s slums.
“While people are finding pleasure in the music, we also want them to hear the message,” said Maçon, 23, who has been invited to perform the song at Miami’s Compas Festival in May.
His definition of a sugar baby is a young woman in her 20s often living a double life with “a brother” — a young, often unemployed boyfriend — and a “Papa,” a financially-stable man old enough to be her father or grandfather, on the side.
Despite the song’s popularity, there has been backlash. Some of the women who see themselves reflected in the lyrics say it unfairly casts them as “gold diggers,” while others in Haiti have dismissed it as “a ghetto problem.” Jean Jameson Tintin, one of Maçon’s collaborators, says the song is about finding a solution for a broader societal problem that, if not addressed, risks becoming something widely accepted.
I CALL IT A PROSTITUTION OF MISERY.
Danielle Magloire, human rights activist
After being in heavy rotation in the slums for months, the song finally burst into the mainstream late last year after motorcycle taxi and bus drivers began playing it. Last month, it went viral on WhatsApp and social media after Joseph, the radio journalist, published a radio piece examining the phenomenon.
“I was surprised at how many women were willing to admit to being a Madan Papa,” said Joseph who was bombarded with sugar babies willing to share their stories after putting out a call on his Facebook page.
He said some of the fault lies in the breakdown of the family. “Parents, have just resigned from their roles. They’ve turned a blind eye,” he said.
Toussaint, the sociologist said it’s not that Haitian parents don’t care or have lost their values. Rather, he said, the country’s savaged economy has weakened and demoralized families, and undermined parental authority.
“Parents are obliged to close their eyes, not because they agree but because they have no choice,” Toussaint said, noting that many of the sugar babies end up as the main breadwinner of the family.
Danielle Magloire, a human rights activist and feminist, said the sugar babies phenomenon speaks to a larger crisis in Haiti, which is the sexual exploitation and sex trafficking of women and girls.
“You go to Petionville [in Port-au-Prince] and you see a bunch of young girls who are prostituting themselves. The misery has made things so grave that when you go downtown, for instance, and inquire about the price someone is paying for the sexual exchange, it’s mind boggling.”
The price, she said, is often less than a dollar.
“When someone has sexual relations with someone for those kinds of prices, it certainly can’t resolve their economic problems,” Magloire said. “On the contrary, it just allows you to get something to eat, something to hold you over. And because there is no social protection in this country, it makes the situation worse. I call it a prostitution of misery.”
The Madan Papa relationships, she said, are just another form of prostitution.
So far, the problem has gotten little attention from the government outside of occasional pronouncements about morals and a continuing crackdown against “Zokiki,” the name given to juvenile delinquency, underage prostitution and men who engage in sex with underage girls. On Friday, a former member of the Lower Chamber of Deputies was arrested after he was accused of having sex with an 11-year-old.
“What interests me is what policies [the politicians] are going to offer up to combat this phenomenon,” Magloire said referring to the larger issue of sexual exploitation in Haitian society. “It’s not a question of morals. The moral response hasn’t solved anything.”
Haiti’s politicians, she said, aren’t paying attention to the problem because “the category of people we’re talking about are people who are disadvantaged, who are living in misery, and it doesn’t involved the children of those who are well off.”
Also fueling the phenomenon is the way in which women are perceived in Haiti’s male-dominated society.
“They are considered to be merchandise. ‘In order for me to help you, you have to give me the merchandise,’ ” Magloire said. “There is a strong logic of sexual exploitation that is very pervasive where someone says, ‘I’m going to help someone go to school.’ But in order to give that help, there has to be a sexual exchange.”
Neesha doesn’t disagree that being a Madan Papa is a form of exploitation. She disagrees, however, that it’s a form of prostitution.
“They don’t support youth in this country so you are left with no choice but to seek out a Papa,” Neesha said.
Haiti’s power brokers, she concedes, are better off “putting their heads together to create employment” opportunities for young women like her and her friends, some of whom are now asking her “to ask my Papa if he knows of an available Papa.”
Maçon and Tintin, who haven’t earned a dime off the song because it was passed around on thumb drives and Haiti’s laws offer no protection to artists, insist Madan Papa is a form of prostitution and their song is a way of speaking out against it.
“It’s a practice that is not normal,” said Tintin, 24, reserving his criticism for the men. “They can always help the youth, but not in this way.”